STAND FOR SOMEONE

We can read all the books that were written in the 19th century and we find love...we find all of different kind of love definitions. We find the stories of love, we discuss it, we talk about THEM, about their story. We wish that we could be like that, we regrette and sometimes we are sure that is not for us. We hear it, we search it,we doubt it, we feel it, we stop feeling it. But feelings are just feelings. Its a question of acknowledge the feelings but its just that. Everyone has the right to feel or not to feel, and in fact everybody feels something all the time. People are attracted for specific talents, for some reactions, for some light in the other. Love its much more like than that...its suffering sometimes, its wanting, its a passion mixed with wanting to share something and it is to let go. It is the ability to offer more than to ourselves, is the ligth we have when we give, it is taking a stand for someone and nourish it until we die. Is to surprise, is to wait, is to live the mistery, is to understand the loss, is to be happy everyday because we share the same space. is to give our hearts and stay there. People think too much, wait to less, doubt too much and commit too less. But people grow and the ones that dive in the insight, that want to know theirselves better, that start loving theirselves as well and believing grow to a different place. Grow to the ground they never thought before. Grow to a journey that they are not capable to get out of there anymore because the old space just do not exist anymore. Its dead! It diseappeared. The fear is maybe the most dangerous place to be observing love. Not to give the heart. I was there once, long time ago...It seems an eternity for me because I am no longer there in a whole. I have a Path and objective in life that I adore in every single minute. Im in comfort knowing the mistery and uncontroled dailylife and its amazing.The rest, the wishes, the past I just accept and do not look back anymore. Until this month I may have been doing some stories, some wishes, some ideas but I just stopped looking back for good.
Yesterday I was in a dinner table and I heard about love...I heard about a couple that 18 years after being together, they still send messages between themselves daily to say I love you... and they do. But they had moments of different feelings and non feelings in the path and the took a stand for the couple.
That is to take a stand, much more than just feelings, it is the stand we decide to take when we say to someone I love you, it is a step we give and we stand for it. I respect it immensely. I respect so much people that decide to be the companions in a path and they stand for them with maturity, fun, insight dialogue and honesty ... finally they really grow together isnt it? And there's there that we find the love, when we take it above all.
Love is so strong and we have the ability to accept it as we accept all of the different stories even if we think we are not ready for it because one day people just do not wait anymore and the ones that took a stand are no longer there. had time, had waiting ... after that just create a new possibility, a better one, one the it is really possible, take a stand for it, stop pretending the non readiness because of the fear that someone is too much for you, or too less...read the signs take a stand and dont look back.